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Use these quick and easy ideas to help your relationship stay fun
Showing someone that you care and that they are special to you does not need to be complicated.  Some of the most touching ways of saying I LOVE YOU are the simplest and most appreciated.
Adapt just a few today and watch as your love life takes wings.....and flies!

1. Give or get a hug for no reason
   
2. Tell the other person that they are important and respected
   
3. Kiss them when people are looking
   
4. Kiss them when people aren't looking
   
5. Tell the other person that you care deeply
   
6. Hold hands to show support
   
7. Go together for a long bike ride
   
8. Give a special present/give any present
   
9. Tell them you are there for them when they need you most
   
10. Spend quality time together every day
    
11. Enjoy a film together and put your arm around him or her during the story
    
12. Walk arm in arm through the woods
    
13. Compose a special tape of love songs just for him or her
    
14. Open up and share your feelings
    
15. Open up and share your dreams with each other
    
16. On a cold day snuggle up together/do this on any day just because
    
17. Sit for a long while together in the park
    
18. Take a long walk together
    
19. Enjoy a meal together and you pay
    
20. Enjoy a picnic indoors and roll around together on the floor
    
21. Enjoy an outdoor game of Frisbee together
    
22. Pay lots of lovely compliments
    
23. Get all heated up and relax in a Jacuzzi
    
24. Go for a hearty swim together
    
25. Feel close together and just relax
    
26. Shop for dinner together and you pay
    
27. Cook a good meal together and you do the dishes
    
28. Offer a loving touch
    
29. Plan and go on a wild trip together
    
30. Host a party for all of your mutual friends
    
31. Bake a yummy cake
    
32. Be quiet together in a library
    
33. Cultivate your culture and browse in a museum
    
34. Always be there for him or her
    
35. Find out what's meaningful for the other person - and then join with them
    
36. Get in good shape together
    
37. Look deeply into his or her eyes and just gaze
    
38. Wash your loved one’s car by hand
    
39. Land that big fish together/you bait your own hook
    
40. Talk to each other about everything

Day 1:
Leave a note professing your love for your partner to find during the day. Put the note where it will be found, easily. Try their briefcase, the driver's seat of their car, in their coat pocket, in their lunch bag, taped to the receiver of the phone, taped to their computer, or left taped to a doorknob.
As soon as you arrive home for the day seek out your partner and offer a big, loving kiss.  Tell your partner how much you love him or her and ask about their day. Make this a new, daily habit.
As an alternate idea, when your partner arrives home for the day, take their hand and pull them towards you aggressively.  Offer a huge hug, kiss and say, "I missed you today!”
Day 2:
While your partner showers, heat up his or her towel in the dryer.
Have flowers delivered to partner at work.
Surprise your partner by arriving home with their favorite drink, snack, or ice-cream.
Day 3:
Arrange for an intimate lunch date with your partner. Afterward, send a virtual card. Tell them how much you enjoyed lunch together.
Day 4:
Call your partner in the middle of the day to discuss your romantic plans for that evening.
Print out some love coupons (find them on-line) and present them to your partner.  One might say:  this entitles loved one to a full-body massage, and sign your name.
Day 5:
For the kid in all of us!  Use multi-colored, sidewalk chalk to draw a BIG heart in red and write.  Print out the words, “I love you" in the middle of the heart.  Do this someplace that is prominent such as on your driveway so that when your partner comes home he or she will see it.
Cook a favorite meal for your partner and then eat it, slowly, by candlelight.
Day 6:
When the weather is best, take a brisk walk through a nature trail with your love and talk about all the reasons why
he or she is so special to you.
If the weather is dreary, have an indoor picnic.  Spend the time together, inside enjoying your favorite board games and just relaxing and talking.
Cuddle up in your pj’s and relish a romantic movie together.
Day 7:
Just sleep in and cuddle together.  Call into work and explain you are “under the weather” and need to rest a bit more before coming in.
Make a long list of the many reasons why you love your partner as you do and then have them framed and present it to him or her.
If you don’t live together, call your loved one just to say goodnight. Recite a favorite love poem over the phone and end with, “Sweet dreams, until we meet again!”

Check out these simple romantic ideas, tips and advice to help your relationship survive and thrive in the long term.
"Should the sun refuse to shine, should romance run out of rhyme; you alone will hold my heart -- now until the very end of time.”
- Verses of Love
The biggest myth in romance is that you must pull off something big and extravagant so that your efforts will matter.  The truth is that what will impress your loved one the most will often be the little things.
Little things are rather simple things that you do for your loved one. Despite the fact that they are "little" they can mean so much.  Your loved one will be touched that you took the time to show him or her that you care so much. 
You will be considered thoughtful.  All of this plays very well when wishing to be romantic. Consider your loved one’s heart to be a basket. The basket wants to be filled.  When you shower your loved one’s basket with many, little gifts, the basket will be filled and your loved one will be content and feel loved.  It is as simple as that!
Considering the importance of every day little things, think about some new romantic ideas.

here are a few to get you started: -

• Pay your loved one a compliment, such as how awesome they look.
• Give your loved one a strong hug just because.
• Pick a bouquet of wild flowers and present them with a kiss.
• Massage their back and/or feet at the end of a work week.
• Leave an "I love you" note on their pillow.
• Call spontaneously at their work to say “I am thinking about you.”
• Place your arm around your loved one in public.

Remember, when you take the time to be thoughtful and attentive today, this can have a real positive effect on your long term relationship. We hope you find this advice and romantic ideas useful as always..

Is the best romantic gift stil a bunch of roses...? 

Have you ever wished you could come up with a new gift idea to show your loved one how you feel? 

Have you ever wondered about what the different colors of Roses actually mean? For instance, next time you choose a specific color of Rose, do so to convey a special meaning. 
Look below and learn what the different Rose colors represent and next time you buy a Rose as a gift, deliver a loving message at the same time.
Colored Roses and What Each Color Means

• Red - Love, I Love You
• Pink - Perfect Happiness, Please Believe Me
• Peach - Modesty
• White - Innocence and Purity, I am Worthy of You, You're Heavenly
• Orange - Fascination
• Yellow - Texas Love, Joy and Friendship
• Single Full Bloomed Rose - I Love You, I Still Love You
• White and Red Mixed - Unity
• Rosebud - Beauty and Youth, A Heart of Innocent Love
• Rosebud (Red) - Pure and Lovely
• Rosebud (White) - Girlhood
• Bridal - Happy Love
• Christmas - Tranquilize My Anxiety
• Damask - Persian Ambassador of Love
• Dark Crimson - Mourning or Loss
• Hibiscus - Delicate Beauty
• Leaf - You May Hope
• Tea - I'll Remember Always
• Thornless - Love at First Sight
• Bouquet of Mature Blooms - Gratitude

Next time you buy your loved one a Rose as a gift, attach a handwritten card to convey the message to him/her that the color means.  This is a great way to enhance your love life!
Here are some great examples for you to adapt for yourself:

• Tea Rose -- Last night was very special.  I’ll Remember Always!
• Dark Crimson -- You mean so much to me.  Can we try again just one more time?
• Rosebud (Red) -- You take my breath away!  You look so lovely!
• Orange -- You fascinate me!  Can we spend more time together?

Even smaller, simpler messages will enhance your love life and will thrill your partner!

Learn the true art of kissing for success, including french kissing techniques, tips and advice for the ultimate kiss

What is romance without a kiss?

When wishing for romance, your kisses had better be good to make a favorable impression. It may not be fair, but some will judge you on your first kiss as to whether or not they will want to see you again. In other words, there needs to be good chemistry when kissing.
A good kiss delivers a powerful impact! If you're a great kisser, you're going to turn your date on and you will have a definite edge.
What distinguishes a good kisser from the kisser we all want to forget? The key is to be soft and gentle and follow their lead.  Here are some good romantic kissing tips to enhance your love life:
STEP ONE

• Be careful not to startle - watch and wait for the signal to proceed
• Avoid the ‘ambush’ kiss (although these can be exciting as your relationship progresses.)
• Look deeply into your partner’s eyes.  This will send the message that you like them and want to be closer to them. 
• Look for their signals as well. Look for a warm, kind smile (even a slight smile is good; it doesn’t have to be BIG.)
• Pay attention to the look on your loved one’s face.  This will indicate where they want to go with this kiss.

STEP TWO
Look for good balance.  As you move closer to that magical kiss, you don’t want to be leaning too forward awkwardly to get there.
As you move closer you are sending signals. You want your body to be in a comfortable position during the kiss, so you can enjoy every moment of it.
Go for a light touch just before the kiss. While a hand lightly on the face is a definite signal of intimacy, holding hands combined with eye contact and a warm look can indicate the beginning of a great kiss to come.
Make sure you are aligned correctly at this point. This means not only getting your lips on track with theirs, but getting the head tilted correctly as well.
Tilt your head slightly to one side first. Your partner will likely react and tilt the other way. This is a mutual sign that the kiss will be very welcomed.
STEP THREE
Relax your lips, close your eyes.
Move in slowly. During step number two you made sure the two of you were aligned correctly, now you can close your eyes as you’re just about to make contact.
Relax your lips, not tightly pressed together. Give your partner the pleasant experience of feeling your lips softly against theirs.
Your lips should be recently moistened, but not wet.
STEP FOUR
Relax your lips, tilt your head and breathe evenly.
Moving in, you can part your lips slightly just before contact. Keep your lips relaxed, your tongue in your mouth.
Keep your head tilted so both of you can still breathe comfortably on contact and as the perfect kiss is held...
SAVOR every moment ... be slow, gentle, easy.
STEP FIVE
Keep it sweet, not too long and not too wet.
Don’t pull away too quickly or make any quick movements. Savor. Savor. Savor. Feel the power and romance of the kiss.
Enjoy the moment!
STEP SIX
Take your time and don’t rush. Make eye contact, nonverbal and verbal messages.
To end, pull away slowly and make eye contact again. Show a satisfied, warm smile to reinforce how you feel.
Enjoy the closeness, relax, and finish the kiss with a warm embrace.
A few, thoughtful words, such as, “That was nice,” can be whispered.  Try to reinforce how you felt about your kiss with positive words.  Your partner will appreciate this and this can break the ice a little.
Now that you have mastered the romance of a kiss....you are well on your way to learn even more about how to enhance your romance life!
THE ROMANCE AND SCIENCE OF KISSING
What is that feeling people get from a good kiss that's so hard to explain?  How does kissing come into play when being romantic?
Women often compare a good kiss to "melting butter" and like being "hit by a wave," according to a recent survey. Men often describe it as similar to "vibrations at a concert" or a "three pointer at the buzzer to win the NCAA basketball tournament," according to the same survey.
Experts have proven there is a lot of physiology behind the warm and fuzzy feelings that come from a good kiss.
Feelings of romantic love, and kissing, stimulate the same type of brain activity as many sports, such as: parachuting, bungee jumping and distance running, for example. These same types of activities cause the brain to experience a surge in norepinephrine, dopamine and phenylethylamine (or just PEA to some.) These neurotransmitters attach to pleasure receptors in the brain and create feelings of euphoria, giddiness, elation and such.
So, next time you feel romantic and want to show your love to someone special, go for that wonderful kiss -- it will definitely leave a lasting impression!
A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. ~ Ingrid Bergman

Couples are forever looking for ways to strengthen or enhance their love life. 
A very simple and effective way to steal away for some quality time together is to establish a time to meet each day. 
This can easily be arranged over the lunch hour and after dinner hours.
One idea is to arrange a time to meet for a drink of tea, or whatever type of drink that you prefer.  If possible, arrange to meet in your home where you are assured of privacy. 
With tea, enjoy a bite to eat when you can.  While polishing off your pot of tea, simply sit for 30 minutes or so and discuss how your day is going and make any plans ahead for the coming week.
This can be a rather intimate time for the two of you and can become a regular ritual.
Many couples with children often want to know how they can add romance to their relationship being surrounded by children.
The regular meeting ritual is one way that couples can both spend some special time alone while setting a wonderful example for the children that their mom and dad really love each other.
For parents with small children, it might be impossible to spend quiet time alone together until after the children are put to bed. The importance of the ritual is the uninterrupted time spent together.
Whatever means you use to be able to do that consistently will pay off in the romance department, now and well into the future.

Engaging in a long-distance relationship is very challenging!  To be up to it, take on the task of sending meaningful messages to your loved one on a regular basis.
Use the instant messengers like AOL, Yahoo, ICQ, etc. to keep your love life hopping, long distance.  You have relative privacy and can reinforce the width and depth of your love this way.  Try to IM each day and night!
Be really creative by writing a letter or finding a picture of something you have shared together. Paste the letter/picture to a piece of cardboard and then cut it into several puzzle pieces. Send your long distance love a few pieces every other day in the mail and once he or she has completed the puzzle send a dozen roses in celebration!
Have someone take pictures of yourself and create a handmade calendar. Use card paper and glue a colorful border on each piece. Color copy it and enlarge the pictures, pasting them on the paper. Print out boxes on the computer for the days and decorate each week or month. Tie them all together with a fancy ribbon and send it to him or her in the mail.  Your loved one will not forget you!
Send your loved one letters sprayed with your perfume/cologne. Soak pieces of material with your scent and include those and it will last forever!
If you can’t be there to share a special moment, send your long distance love dinner by calling a restaurant where he/she lives and have them deliver your love's favorite meal.  Use your computer cam to enjoy the meal together!
Instead of sending your love a hand-written letter this week, send a blank tape and microphone, and tell them your greatest desire for them when you next meet. They can listen to the tape whenever they want to hear your voice.
Send a package with a tape of the songs you listened to together the last time you were together.  Send some of his or her favorite candy, and something memorable like a little stuffed toy. Tell them how much they are missed and how you think of them constantly! It's a great way to let your love know you're thinking about them despite the distance.
Surprise your loved one by arranging for a delivery of their favorite flowers!  Attach a handwritten card professing your love for them!  This is always a beautiful surprise!
Design a webpage in your love's honor. Dedicate the page to your relationship and include poetry, thoughts, pictures, romantic messages, the story of how you met, and all other details to make them smile.
Send your partner a virtual love card.  Once you have their email address you are all set!  Send them regularly!
Save a record of all of your email over your long-distance relationship.  Once you have accumulated a full years worth, print them all out and separate them by month.
For every month, make a cover page that summarizes all of the important and sentimental things that you have done together. Include pictures taken, too. Have all of the pages bound into a hard-covered book, and give it a title, like "Love Abounds" inscribed on the cover.  This will become a treasured keepsake!

Send your Loved one on a Scavenger Hunt
Send your loved one on a scavenger hunt to be remembered! He or she will visit places that are significant to your relationship, like where you first met, where you first kissed, your first date. You are waiting at each place ahead of him or her to give them the next clue. End the hunt somewhere romantic over a bottle of good wine.
Send your lover on a scavenger hunt throughout your home to find a gift. Start with a clue that will lead them to the kitchen, and then strategically place clues all over your home.  Make yourself available for lots of kisses and hugs as they progress. For a playful touch place a gift of an edible oil for massage in the final box and prepare to have lots of romping fun!
Create clues to hunt for a gift according to special events the two of you have enjoyed.  For example, "the place we first made love," "the place we last made love," "where we hide on the kids," "where we always kiss in the morning," Your partner will have fun remembering!

Plan & Prepare for a Romantic Meal
Romantic meals will work well any day of the week and aren't only good for Valentine's Day and anniversaries. The key is in the planning and preparation.

Make a Great Impression
Send a handwritten invitation to your loved one rather than inviting them over the phone. Include the date, time, location and any type of dress code. So that he or she is well prepared, forget about surprising them.  You want them to be hungry to eat a fabulous dinner.
Choose your Meal
Your best bet is to simply ask.  Ask him or her what their favorite foods are, if you don’t already know.  No point serving them something known to be an aphrodisiac if you don’t know that they will like them.
Search the Internet for creative “love” recipes that includes your lover’s tastes.  This is your way to their heart, after all!  Preparing their favorite meal will be far more meaningful than simply selecting something interesting out of a cook book.
Fancy Schmanzy
Tell your loved one to dress fine!  You should dress to knock their socks off, too!  When you want to impress with a wonderful, love inspiring meal, be sure to dress the part, just the same.  This will nicely set the mood.
If you like the idea of serving a dessert, it works well for you to prepare it earlier the same day.  This way, you won’t be too busy with preparations once your guest is dining with you.
Check with your loved one to see if he or she prefers alcohol or not.  You can buy very nice non-alcoholic wines to serve with dinner.
If your loved one offers to help with the preparations, take plenty of time to fool around!  In between simmers and chops and dices, don’t forget to sample and nibble on the neck, as well!  Setting the mood involves the romance department, too!

Set a Romantic Atmosphere
String very tiny and soft white lights along the fireplace, around a door frame or window frame.  This will set a lovely, peaceful mood!
If your romantic dinner is set to take place while it is daytime and you prefer the dark, cover your windows so that no light will come in.
When featuring candles, consider using the non-scented types.  This will highlight your savory aromas from your meal.
Mood music playing softly in the background will further enhance a romantic atmosphere. Plenty of really good radio stations found on the FM dial offer commercial free softer jazz and ambient sounds.
Set up your meal in front of a fireplace if possible.  The last place you want to eat this romantic meal will be in your kitchen.  If you have to, just this time, rearrange the furniture.  It will pay off in spades!

Enjoying the four seasons is a special treat for those in love.  Summer seems to bring out the lover in all of us.  Use some of these creative suggestions and enhance your love life in style!

• Build a Huge Bonfire
• Sleep Entirely Under the Stars - This means no covering of any kind.
• Go for a Long Canoe Paddle - Wear your life jacket! Camp grounds will rent them out. Exploring is lots of fun!
• Go for a Paddle Boat Ride - Wear a life jacket! Camp grounds will rent them out.
• Feast with a Barbecue - Have fun with your friends or savor a private barbecue just for two.
• Spend a Day with your Camera and Take Pictures - Pose with little animals and nature in the woods, or go to a park and take pictures of each other.
• Reach for the Stars and Fly a Kite
• Go for a Fun Clam Dig
• Go for a Leisurely Walk on a Challenging Nature Trail
• Spend the Day with a Picnic and Hike in the Woods
• Go Fishing and Land the Big One
• Go to a Private Nude Beach for the Day
• Go on a Camping Trip
• Make Homemade Sorbet Together
• Go Swimming at Night in a Pond or Creek
• Go Strawberry/Blueberry/Apple Picking
• Go to a Local Circus
• Go for a Walk at Sundown
• Go to a Park and Lie Down in the Tall Grass
• Watch for a Shooting Star in August
• Get up Extra Early and Watch as the Sun Rises Together
• Plant a Garden with Love Together
• Paint a Room Their Favorite Color
• Use a Telescope and Just Stargaze on a Very Dark Night

By now we all realize that one of the most important things to remember in a committed relationship is to keep the romance alive and thriving.
It is all too easy to take one another for granted after a period of time passes.  Doing this, though, will not produce a strong love life and is not conducive for ongoing passion.
Easily the most effective way of keeping your relationship fresh and filled with love and appreciation is to simply nurture romance.
Here is a helpful meditation to keep your love alive!
I won’t ever take you
. . . for granted
I won’t ever forget
what it was like before you
or how I would feel without you
I won’t ever forget
our first kiss
our last warm touch
I won’t ever let a day go by
without telling you

how very much you mean to me
how very deeply I love you
how very much I need you
You need never doubt
the way I feel about you
how much happier I am
. . . with you in my life!
I love you now and always!
Wouldn’t a wonderful declaration of your love be a nice and romantic gift?
Declare your love in a love note or with romantic poetry
I find the words difficult
with just so many emotions tumbling through my mind
I feel only pride in you for who you are and what you mean to me
I struggle to put my thoughts to paper....but I must
You mean everything to me and more
even when the words don’t come out quite right
I still feel such peace and complete assurance
that you understand
I will forever be right by your side
I feel so whole when you are near
it all feels so good and so true
How can I thank you?
For the many dreams
for such wonderful times
Even if I should awake to be alone and scared
you are there
in my fondest hopes and memories
and when morning comes
together.....

we will still be on this journey
for we made a vow....
You make my life complete
You heal my heart and show me pure joy
You touch my soul and teach me to laugh
You heal my mind and teach me to dream
You kiss my spirit and teach me to fly
You are the best part of my life.
Probably the dearest and sweetest show of your affection would be to pen your own thoughts of your loved one.  Why not get started now?  You have so much to gain!
Use all the tips above often, and keep the flames of romance kindled in yours and your partner’s lives!